Author: Yussuf Giwa

Being successful is to allow someone point out your mistakes, it shows that someone is interested in your success and it is an opportunity for you to improve.

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25 MOST LIKELY QUESTION TO BE ASKED AT ANY JOB INTERVIEW.

1. Tell me about yourself.
2. What is your greatest strength?
3. What is your greatest weakness?
4. Why should we hire you?
5. Why do you want to work here?
6. Tell me about a time you showed leadership?
7. Tell me about a time you were successful on a team.
8. What would your co-workers say about you?
9. Why do you want to leave your current role?
10. Describe your most challenging project.
11. Tell me about something you’ve accomplished that you are proud of.
12. Can you explain your employment gap?
13. What are your salary expectations?
14. What do you like to do outside of work?
15. Tell me about a time you had to manage conflicting priorities.
16. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
17. Describe your leadership style.
18. Tell me about a time you failed or make a mistake.
19. Tell me about a time you worked with a difficult person.
20. Tell me about a time you had to persuade someone.
21. Tell me about a time you disagreed with someone.
22. Tell me about a time you created a goal and achieved it.
23. Tell me about a time you surpassed people’s expectations.
24. Tell me about a time you had to handle pressure.
25. Tell me about a time you had to learn somethings quickly?

Introduction

Etiquette is merely a set of guidelines for politeness and good manners, the kindnesses with which we should always treat each other. It will always matter!

Without etiquette, members of society would show far too much impatience and disrespect for one another, which would lead to insults, dishonesty, cheating, road rage, fist fights, and a rash of other unfortunate incidents. 

What Is Etiquette? 

Etiquette, the complex network of rules that govern good behavior and our social and business interactions, is always evolving and changing as society changes.  It reflects our cultural norms, generally accepted ethical codes, and the rules of various groups we belong to.   

It helps us show respect and consideration to others and makes others glad that we are with them. Without proper manners and etiquette, the customs of polite society would soon disappear and we would act more like animals and less like people. Aggressiveness and an “every man for himself” attitude would take the lead. 

Origin of Etiquette

In earlier times, the rules of etiquette were used for two purposes: to remind people of their own status within society and to reinforce certain restrictions on individuals within that society.

In the Middle Ages and the Renaissance, for instance, etiquette dictated everything from how low a person of inferior rank had to bow to a person of higher rank to how long a man had to spend courting a woman before the two could marry. 

Even the way a person mourned was strictly outlined by rules of etiquette until as recently as the Civil War era in the United States. Widows then were expected to dress in “widow’s weeds,” or completely black clothing and veils, for a full year after the death of a husband. 

These types of rules in earlier society were usually determined by the ruling classes because they served the purpose of making them more secure in their roles as the rulers of society. By far, the most strenuously enforced rules of etiquette were tied to how one showed respect for the king and his highest ranking officials, such as dukes and princes.  It reinforced their authority. 

The rules of etiquette concerning marriage, mourning, and other major events of life largely applied only to the ruling classes or the wealthy. Peasants and workers, as long as they followed the rules of etiquette pertaining to respecting their superiors, were not expected to follow formalized rules of courtship; they tended to base their own “rules” of courtship on good manners and common sense.

Over the centuries, as society has become more democratic, etiquette has become an excellent combination of good manners, common sense, and rules of conduct that reflect cultural norms and the rules of our society as a whole rather than just one distinct group within it.  It has less to do with the fashion of the moment or who is in power and more to do with putting others at ease and an ethical code of conduct.

Etiquette in Today’s Society

Today’s etiquette serves several important functions: 

• Etiquette provides personal security. Knowing how to behave appropriately in a given situation makes you more comfortable.
• It protects the feelings of others. Proper etiquette requires that you make others comfortable and protect their feelings. You do not point out their errors or draw attention to their mistakes.
• It makes communication clearer. Etiquette enhances communication by breaking down barriers, not erecting them.
• It will enhance your status at work. In any working situation, you are perceived as more capable, more professional, and more intelligent if you are familiar with the proper code of conduct for the workplace. 
• It makes good first impressions. The first five to seven seconds after you meet someone are crucial. Your first impression lingers in the other person’s mind long after you are gone.  If you use proper etiquette, that first impression will be a positive one.

Conclusion

Let keep in mind that etiquette is meant to be a guideline, not a set of strict rules carved in stone. Those guidelines are developed using common sense, a sense of fairness, politeness, and above all, consideration for others.  If you let consideration for others be your final arbiter, you will be well on your way to being the kind of polite person who understands and follow the rules of etiquette instinctively.

The rules of etiquette are set of unspoken rules that have been determined by society as a whole. Etiquette is made up of social norms that evolve with repeated behaviours that are accepted within a society.

INTRODUCTION

Marriage is the state of being united as spouses in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law.

Marriage occurs after when both intending partners decided to spend the rest of their lives with each other. However, there are some Marital realities that must be understood before taking the bold decision of marrying one another, if these phenomenal aren’t maximized, the relationship wouldn’t last longer. This discuss will enable prospective spouses to accommodate the real picture of his/her partner after marriage and profound solution to it.

The first five to seven years are the most challenging of many marriages. They are the time that the couple spends getting to know one another better and adjusting to each other’s habits and personalities. Below, are some of the main problems couples face in the early years that result to divorce in many marriages today and some possible solution.

YOUR SPOUSE HAS A WEAKNESS

It should be noted that only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse weakness you can’t get the best out of his/her strength and you will never see any positivist in him/her. Overlook those weaknesses with your patience and understanding. You should also know that you have your weaknesses he/she is nursing. So, identify those weaknesses and learn how to cope with it for the purpose of a Tranquil Marital life.

YOUR SPOUSE HAS A DARK HISTORY None of you is an Angel, therefore avoid digging your spouse’s past. Never threaten him/her with it! The past has gone and never remind each other what will make you both cry!

WHO IS IN CHARGE? this is one of the tug of war between couples over who is in control in the relationship. This however led some feminist among women to a stalemate in disagreement, violence and confrontations in their marriages.

TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR

When you marry, you must declare war against the enemies of marriage such as Prayerlessness, Laziness, third party influence, stinginess, stubbornness, wife battery, Fornication, Night clubbing, Unforgiveness etc…. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVEL OF SUCCESS Don’t ever compare your marriage with anyone! every marriage has its specific challenge. To avoid the stresses in marriage, Be Patient! Work hard and with time your marriage dreams will come true. Don’t be in haste! Your time is coming.

EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ITS OWN CHALLENGES

Marriage isn’t a bed of rose. Every shining marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved during the trying periods. Remember your promises to each other to be there with your selfless service under the sun and in the rain

To marry is to take risk.

You can’t get a 100% of the person you desire.

THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE

there isn’t any ready made marriage anywhere. Both spouse will volunteer and sacrifice to make it perfect on a daily basis.

Written By: Okeshola O. Qazeem (D’ Core)

KEYWORDS.

Environment: These are surroundings or conditions in which a person, animal, or plant lives or operates.

Behaviour: Is the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, especially towards others.

INTRODUCTION

Since inception, humans have needed to be sensitive to their surroundings to survive, which means that we have an innate awareness of our environment and seek out environments with certain qualities.

First of all, humans have a strong need for safety and security and look for those attributes in their environment. We also look for physical comfort, such as an environment with the right temperature. In addition, we seek an environment that is psychologically comfortable: for example, environments that are familiar, but offer the right amount of stimulus. Retailers and the hospitality industry know this very well and try to provide an atmosphere that creates a positive customer experience and offers three important attributes: comfort, safety, and entertainment. These attributes are equally important in healthcare as well.

HOW THE ENVIRONMENT CAN INFLUENCE HUMAN BEHAVIOR

Below are just a few examples of how the environment can impact you;

The environment can facilitate or discourage interactions among people (and the subsequent benefits of social support). For example, an inviting space with comfortable chairs and privacy can encourage a family to stay and visit with a patient.

The environment can influence peoples’ behavior and motivation to act. For example, a dingy corridor filled with extra hospital equipment will invite staff to leave another item in the hall, whereas a clean corridor and adequate storage will encourage staff to take the time to put the item away.

The environment can influence mood. For example, the results of several research studies reveal that rooms with bright light, both natural and artificial, can improve health outcomes such as depression, agitation, and sleep.

Likewise, people we move around with can have an influence on us, like the old saying: “show me your friend and I’ll tell you who you are”.

As human, it is very important you move around with people that will have a positive influence in you, friends that you make money together with, that shares knowledge with you, friends that will correct your mistakes and tell you if you are wrong.

The environment also has a lot to do with how your children turns out, which means it is very important you are wary of the environment you chose to live in because at the end of the day, your children will be influenced more by them than by you.

In conclusion, it is necessary to be wary of the environment we live in because it will be a significant part of us till death. Someone who was brought up in a ghetto and someone brought up in a housing estate can’t exhibit same character, but mind you, it doesn’t mean everyone out of the ghetto turns out bad and the everybody in the latter turns out good, but still it is very important to give our children the best there is and the things we didn’t enjoy as kids.

The environment gives us connections, experience, etc. which will be helpful in the long-run.

Written By: Oseni Rahmon T.